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Dealing With Breakup What To Do After A Painful Breakup

Author : John Hugh

Submitted : 2010-04-26 04:21:09    Word Count : 561    Popularity:   36

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Dealing with breakup can be painful. So things didnít work out and she dumped you. After a long time of thinking that youíre on top of the world, she shoots you down the way they do in old Westerns and runs off with your horse. Youíre appalled, heartbroken; thereís a nagging pain in your chest that doctors canít cure.

Being left by someone whom you care deeply about is never easy. However, it also doesnít change the fact that despite everything that has happened, you still want her back.

At this point, youíre going to have to assess the whole situation from a different vantage pointónot from the eyes of a lover who is so smitten, he doesnít see clearly.

See her for who she is
Some guys are too overwhelmed by desire that they donít see straight. They overlook certain realities about the women they are with. Who is she as a person? What are the things that she likes/dislikes? Whatís that secret thing about her that only you know? Why did you fall in love with her? What qualities does she have that drive you crazy?

Understand your relationship for what it was
A common mistake for people undergoing a break up is that after the fight, they are so wrapped up in their loss, they remember the relationship differently. Suddenly, everything was perfect and you donít know why you split up in the first place. You glean through the signs even when they are staring you at the face. Ask yourself some of the basic questions: Did you talk often? Had frequent fights? How often were you intimate? How was she to you? Remember her body language then and what they indicated. Was she displeased? Happy? Frustrated?

Consider each otherís shortcomings
Think about what each of you did to make things end.

Remember why you broke up
Itís not enough that you want instant gratification by getting back together with your ex like nothing happened. You have to face factsóincluding the painful ones. This is useful to you, especially if youíre trying to win her back.

After all this and youíre still sure that you absolutely canít live without her, take the first crucial step in getting her back.

Start living your life without her
Pick up the pieces of your shattered heart and move on. Focus on yourself for a bit. Fix what needs fixing, and leave what isnít broken. Work on your issues and get on the road to self improvement. Grow up. Put an end to bad habits. Start good ones. Take a more positive outlook in life. Be kinder. Stay friends with her, but donít stalk her. Refrain from the tendency to call her frequently and get yourself busy on more productive activities. Donít act like a fawning idiot by gawking at her all the time. Act like sheís just one of the guys. Whatever you do, do not be too obvious about wanting her back. Rather, show her how youíve come a long way from who you were when you guys were together. Make her feel like sheís missing out on a lot.

Remember, if you want her to want you, you have to be worth wanting. Be someone she regrets leaving.

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