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How To Reach Your Goals

Author : Farouk Radwan

Submitted : 2012-02-06 16:25:47    Word Count : 624    Popularity:   10

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I was always wondering why are some people determined to reach their goals and why are others always helpless. What was confusing me even more is that the same person who was once motivated to reach his goals can suddenly turn into a helpless person who donít know what to do in order to get what he wants.
I kept asking different people and collecting information until I came up with the most important differences between the two states, the state of being motivated to reach your goals and the sate of being helpless.
Here is what I found:
1) Believing that everything is possible: The main reason you find someone always motivated is that he believes that everything is possible. You might think that this is a very optimistic way of thinking but if you watched kids playing for few minutes you will discover that this is the way of thinking we were all born with and then we learned how to believe that things are not possible!
you can never turn a dream into reality before you believe that its possible. Once you do you will start to think of possibilities instead of obstacles and you will be more likely to reach that dream.
2) What happens to our beliefs: Many of us form different beliefs about life as soon as they fail once or twice and so become 100% convinced that there is no way out and this is the time where depression pays those people a visit. If you want to reach anything you want in life then you must not allow yourself to form false beliefs about life even if you failed more than once. After each failure stay alert so that you donít form any false belief that can prevent you from trying another time.
3) Different beliefs about success: Some people who were lucky enough to believe that success doesnít usually happen from the first attempt manage to retain their childhood beliefs and think that everything is possible. Others form limiting beliefs then live their whole lives helpless while blaming that belief for their misfortune. Again thatís another case where people become limited by the limiting beliefs they formed. Once you manage to get rid of such negative beliefs the road to reaching your goals will be opened once again.
4) Helplessness and learning: One major difference I found between those who always get what they want and those who give up trying is the ability to find information and to learn new skills in order to deal with new challenges. No one is born equipped with the knowledge he needs to face life problems and thatís why learning is an essential step in solving these problems. Those who learn new skills manage to overcome the obstacles they face and those who donít learn remain helpless. Most people donít know that helplessness is a state people reach when their current skills and knowledge becomes insufficient for solving an important life problem that they are facing. Once you manage to increase your knowledge or develop the skills you need you wont become helpless.

Final words
I am not trying to be optimistic without depending or realistic facts and I am not trying to convince you to think about life the way I do but I am only trying to let you think realistically just like you used to think when you were a kid.
You once believed that everything is possible and you were right but you collected some limiting beliefs that destroyed this beautiful way of thinking you had.
Get rid of these beliefs and you will each everything you want in life

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